What Gives Your Life Meaning? Can Everyone Figure That Out On Their Own?

Have you given much thought to what gives your life meaning? Have your figured out what meaning you have made of your life? This is something that people sometimes grapple with. Does it ever feel like everyone else has figured this out but you?

Do you find some days when you wish you lived a different life? Do you find yourself envying people who seem to “have it all?

It isn’t all that unusual to wish you lived a different life or were someone else on occasion. If you feel that way all the time, however, it may be time to do some serious soul searching.

What may be missing is a feeling of living a life of meaning and purpose.

What’s different about your life and that of the people you admire and who inspire you? At first glance, it may be that you think it’s money or fame. Often you will look at their possessions.

Maybe you envy their big houses. Or perhaps it is that they travel all the time.

Instead of focusing on the appearances, however, look deeper. Make a list of the qualities the person has that you admire. It may be that you feel inspired by their skills, knowledge, generosity or temperament.

What do they have that you don’t?

In many cases, it is that they have found their passion and a purpose. They have given themselves their life meaning. They have something that they care deeply about above all else. And they feel consumed with a desire to make a difference, not just for themselves but for others as well.

It is never too late. You can experience a sense of your life's meaning, too.

I truly believe that living a life filled with passion and purpose is possible for everyone. And you do not need to be rich, famous or highly educated to make it happen, either.

It is simple even though it is not always easy. The secret to finding meaning in your life is you need to discover what you really want.

Don’t just consider material objects like money, houses, or travel. Look deeper at the lifestyle and relationships you want. And  consider your health and emotions as well. You can’t be passionate about life when you are sick. You can’t fulfill your life meaning if you are filled with regret over the past or worry about the future.

Be willing to live in the moment and live full out with a sense that everything you do is working for your good. That gives your life meaning.

For a positive difference to take place, you don’t have to quit your job and follow your calling 100% of the time right away. Want to be an artist? Paint in your spare time! Want to be a writer? Write!

You don’t have to do anything rash or impulsive. But you can make small incremental changes in your life right now. Begin to feel the benefits of doing what you love. Feel the positive effects and changes while still working. Move slowly but intentionally toward your ultimate goal. Stop waiting for some time in the future to fulfill your dreams. Start right now!

Not everyone wants to change the world.

Maybe you want to make a difference in your own little community. Volunteer at the neighborhood homeless shelter. Your desire to bring about positive change in the lives of others will bring about a positive change in you. You will experience the joy of giving. And in return, you will feel a sense of satisfaction.

You’ll also pick up new skills. And while you are at it, you will make new friends and connections. You may discover other changes you want to make in your life.

Everyone deserves to live their best life.

All you need to do is find your life meaning is discover what you want. Then do that makes you feel excited, joyful, engaged, and fulfilled. That way you can begin to live your best life instead of settling for less than you deserve.

So, what are you waiting for? Get started now!

Until next time.

P.S.

I recently offered a live workshop on the topic, “Find Your Purpose and Passion.” I recorded it, so if you would like to take a look to see if the information could help you, I invite you to take a look. Just register by providing an email address, and select the option for watching that suits your schedule.

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